I'm worried about my classes. I have an exam Thursday (today) Friday Monday and Tuesday. I probably haven't studied as much as I should have but these classes are so abstract there's not really much I actually can study anyway. My whole life I've been so relaxed about everything, And while being stressfree is nice, its counterproductive. "Oh, it doesnt really matter if I get a B in this class instead of an A" turns into "Oh it doesnt really matter what grade I get as long as I pass". "It's not the end of the world if I miss this one assignment." But that's the problem! Nothing in my life affects the world as a whole. Nothing I do or don't do could even come close to being the end of anything bigger than myself. Maybe if it WAS the end of the world I'd try harder. If I could see some purpose or goal for what I'm doing, I'd do it. Otherwise it doesnt make sense to do anything but just get by. I know that no matter if I get an A in this class or fail it, in 5 years, I'll be fine and it wont really matter by then. But thats the problem. Nothing little matters in the shortterm, but it's the little things that build up to big things that are longterm-ly beneficial.
I need to find something I can do and love and make money off of or at least get satisfaction out of doing it. I dont think I can deal with being in a university in the meantime. I feel like I'm just wasting my time and my mom's money. Everyone else seems to have figured it out. I know I know, I still have tons of time to figure it out, but what do I do until then? I cant do something I despise, something that stresses me out to tears, something that wont get me anywhere I want to go, AND it costs money. It just doesnt work.
I've been freaking out about this for months. I'm very good about brushing things off and not letting them get to me But like I said in the first paragraph, maybe it needs to get to me.